Well, I’m sorry, but ear-tonguing is just too irresistible to some of us.  There’s all these little nerves in there.

Some people it just tickles, but we can’t do anything but feel sorry for them.

You notice I’m not using the “love” emoticon.  This has nothing to do with love. That’s a big, mature man will all his hormones and a tongue is a tongue.

Babette is a prostitute, but for her in her time and place, this is the best life she can have.  She’s been well-paid for this client, and enjoying him, and believing she’s helping him, makes it very good for her.

Am I a feminist?  Damn straight.  So are you — you vote and you want women to vote and own our own property and be completely equal in all societies, don’t you?  Then you’re a feminist.  If you don’t want those things for us, then shame on you.

If you’re a woman and you call a feminist a Nazi or worse, you’re like a black person calling Martin Luther King a Nazi.  For the same reasons — some big fat white man told you he’s your real friend and you don’t want to listen to those Outside Agitators.

My attitude toward prostitution?  Legal and regulated.  Because if it’s not legal it’s not regulated, and as in all unregulated industries, the workers get treated like shit and everybody else gets to treat them as a Pariah Class.  Those who want to do it — and there are plenty of willing sex-workers, of all genders — should be able to do it in safe, healthy, comfortable environments.  Including if your idea of comfortable is nipple clamps and Rings Of Trust.